LOST.

I hate family problems. especially ones which involves both parents and cause us, siblings to be sandwiched in between, making us to make an option to who's right and who's wrong. I don't understand why, there can't be mutual understanding between the two of them, despite so long in years of relationship , shouldn't their ties just get stronger each moment, but why does it seems like the longer it gets, the easier it is to snap, just like a fragile thread ? If my family happens to break up because of this, who's to blame and most importantly what will happen to all of us siblings ? My younger sis isn't strong enough to face up to this problem yet, in fact she cried when my parents always quarrel . Sometimes I wish I could just scream my lungs out in the faces of my parents and give them each a slap to wake them up from this living hell we're facing. When they quarrel, it isn't always about them, it's often kids the ones who suffers in the end.

Why do we have to complicate matters when all we have to do is lose our hot temper, our arrogances and be open minded about who's right and who's wrong and who's to be blame. I believe in a relationship like this , there must be strong trust in between them and give and take is a must. And when a quarrel broke out, it's not just one party fault, however both are at wrong because they fail to be understanding and give and take. If only we humans wouldnt bear grudges and is willing to forgive with all our heart...

No one is perfect, but it's how we react to certain changes which play a part in the future. If we are willing to accept and face the reality, learn from our mistakes and let go of grudges , forgives one another and be humble , and most importantly value and treasure human ties/relationship well , then we are good enough.